Compromise: Losing yourself or playing a role?

Song of the day: Grillz by Nelly, Paul Wall, Big Gipp, and some other nigga from Nellys camp:(...smile for me daddy...(whatchu lookin at?)...i wanna see ya grill..(you wanna see my what?)....ya..ya grill..ya..ya..ya grill....) ...I can not get that song out of my head

Quote of the Day: "ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?"- a good sister-friend said when informed of sone very false information. Its funny because...nevermind..its 505...you WOULDN'T understand.

Newest Obsession: Longjohns- I have got to find me some to wear under my jeans...but its too damn cold to go in and out of the stores on michigan ave to find some.


In the beginning of relationships everything is all good in the hood. The person is new and fresh. All youre really concerned about is spending time with that person and giggling and laughing. But as the relationship progresses you start to learn the other persons habits as well as their likes and dislikes. And here is where comprise sets in.

she likes to party. he doesnt and doesnt like for you to. what do you do? 9 times out of 10 she is either going to
a. cut down on the partying
b. cut it out all together

Im going to go with b on this one.

Now....Are you playing the role of homebody or losing yourself?

Another example: Angela Bassett in Waiting to Exhale...wanted to be a caterer...husband wanted to start a business...she probably thought she was going to play the role of supportive wife, but then ended up losing herself.

In most relationships, people miraculously tend to tolerate shit that they wouldnt even think twice about cussing our own mama about. Why is that? Does the feeling of love/like send off endorphines to our brain that make us totally forget everything we cant stand, everything we said we would do or condone? I think it's ridiculous .










But personally..... if the dick is good and he licking it right..i might renig on a couple of my morals and play a role......we all know why we compromise.....DONT PLAY LIKE IM THE ONLY ONE!!!...DONT YOU DARE JUDGE ME!.......freaks.....ya'll can lie if you want to...im just keepin it real